I am always so deeply saddened when I meet with clients who were never taught that they are lovable. I become infuriated with parents who had the audacity to emotionally or physically abuse their children. No matter how much understanding I have of parental dysfunction, it is simply heartbreaking to know that a perfect human… Continue reading You Were Born That Way
Have you ever told a lie? Most of us have even if it was a 'little white lie' that protected the feelings of someone we love. Sometimes a lie is kind "no honey, those pants don't make your butt look big". Sometimes a lie is compassionate "I'm sure he didn't feel any pain in those… Continue reading “What’s Wrong Honey?”: When We Lie…
Moms usually mean well but sometimes they say things to make us feel better that don't actually turn out that way. Sometimes, the statements stay with us, burned into our subconscious and directing behavior of which, we are hardly aware. My sister was a beautiful child with Grace Kelly legs (for you younger folk, Grace… Continue reading Mom May Not Know Best
In yesterday's post Change your REaction, I made the following statement ... Please don't make the mistake that IF your partner / loved one LOVES you he/she will change their behavior because they care about you. Chances are – they DO care about you – but are too caught up in their own “stuff” to make the… Continue reading If He Loved Me … NOT!